Yeah, it’s Voluntary; What else is Mediation? Impartial

In my previous post, I began to discuss what the process of mediation is, and explained that it is voluntary.  Mediation is also:

  • Impartial (some use the word neutral)
    • As a mediator, I work with both (or all) of the parties.  I work to understand each person, and to help them consider and speak about what s/he wants and needs for the future.  In the context of divorce, this often means talking about a place to live and how to pay for this and other expenses; and, if there are children, about spending time with them, and making decisions in regard to raising and caring for them.
    • I do not represent either (or any) of the parties; representing one party against another is something a lawyer often does.  Again, as a mediator, I work with all of the parties, helping them to gather and share information, to develop and consider options for going forward, and ultimately in reaching their agreements.
    • My role is to help the parties to communicate constructively, to guide them in considering and addressing all of the issues that they need to, to ensure as I am able to that their proposed agreements are workable (reality testing), etc. Without taking anyone’s side.

To be continued . . . .

 

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